Wolf in sheeps clothing

I know for me when I call you a friend I mean it. However, when I lose a friend it hurts. Recently I thought of someone as a good friend only to find out that they were not who I thought they were. I am still pretty upset with the situation. Yes I feel as though I could have handled things different but I can’t change that now. I was so upset that this person was not who I thought. It wasn’t like one minute we were ok and the next we weren’t. See in the past months it’s been little things being said or done that started to get me wondering. Well, this person was saying things that I just couldn’t see being said by others. I know that there have been times I heard things being said by others and I won’t deny this. But when the things this person said the others were saying I just didn’t believe it. Well at first I did and it caused a whole lot of stress and tension between a lot of us. Well last week this person said that another said something. So instead of dwelling on it and getting mad at the other person I asked them. That’s when I realized that all these months I was believing things being said that were being taken out of context or not being said at all. I was getting mad at people who I have known for eight years. In workplace you gain some great additions to your life. These people/friends are people who have walked beside me and held my hand in my darkest days. I realize it’s a work environment and you shouldn’t be so personal with others, but when you are with them 40+hours a week it’s hard not to share the joys in your life and also vent about things that are going on. It just really upsets me that I have to let someone walk out of my life that I called friend because they were a wolf in sheep clothing.