Feeling Good about things

Life seems to be going pretty good at this point and no I am not just saying that. I am pretty happy and staying positive about things. I have been learning that it is really hard not to insert my opinion in my friends problems. I want to be there for them and be someone they can talk to but in the same sense it makes me feel like crap. I end up feeling down or getting pissed that the other person is not doing what I think is right. I wish the best for my friends and family who are having issues but I don't think it is healthy for me to be involved. Today is the start of the Photo Fundraiser for Deb Jodun I only have 4 signed up for it but I guess that is better than nothing. Maybe after I post the first photo from the session I will get more response which would be nice. 

In November one of my best friends turns 30 so I am starting to plan her birthday party. We are going with the Dazed and Confused theme which is one of her favorite movies and mine to. I think I am more looking forward to dressing up in the 70's style lol. My best friend has been there for me since 4th grade. We have gone through our share of problems and have even went years without talking but you know what. When we started talking it was like we just picked up where we left off. It's awesome to have a friend like her. She doesn't lie to me, has never stolen from me and is true to the end. She makes me so proud graduating from collage and managing three little boys. What makes her even better is the fact that she doesn't care if she has a big party she would just be happy with a few friends drinking. It shows me that she truly cares about the more important things than items and outdoing others. Some people should take a lesson from her they might learn something.

My friends had a picnic the weekend after the 4th of July. It was pretty nice, there was no drama and everyone had a good time. I even got to catch up with an old friend. It was great to see how he has grown into a man instead of the crazy, mouthy party boy that he was. Now he went to school is in a stable relationship and buying a house. That is awesome. We ended our night setting off a great firework display which was awesome. 

Guess the saying is true that life is so much better when you delete the negativity out or in my case they delete themselves out. I am kind of glad it ended that way or I don't think I would have done it myself.